Sex is not twelve minutes of missionary position every Saturday. It comes in all shapes and sizes. It’s a nice way to say that we’re all screwed up in the head… Seriously, sex wakes something up in ourselves and exploring it can help you know yourself better. Kinky is, according to me, a nice little touch that you can add some time to time, to spice things up and explore another way of having fun. And, if you like it, you can even explore other ways, such as bondage and bdsm.
Submission and dominance play a huge role in sex and pleasure. It doesn’t mean one is superior to the other, or that the man always plays the dominant role, since it goes both ways. It means that, in a weird way, submitting yourself to someone else, giving him or her the power to your body (always with a safe word, of course), opens a door inside you, it can allow you to connect with your insides and it can even empower you as a person. Playing the dominant one can also be a huge turn on. I think that this type of game can make two people get closer to each other and increase their trust. Or break it…
These few gifs will show you explicitly why I think kinky sex can be awesome and fun!
1. It feels good
This gif was taken from Erika Lust’s short film Married With Children, from Five Hot Stories For Her. Check it out!
2. It boosts communication
3. It encourage role-playing
4. It has style
5. You get to use props
6. It goes both ways
7. I releases stress and frustration
8. It’s educational
9. It brings people closer
10. It’s oh so sexy
11. It hurts sometimes
Pain and gain, right?
