Mainstream porn and Real sex: Expectations VS Reality #gifs

As you know, I preach the making of ethical and healthy porn, so that both genders can enjoy and explore their sexuality without the pressure of clichés and body image. This is why I have gathered sexy gifs and made a comparison between mainstream porn and real sex. Real sex can be so much better, more arousing, more satisfactory and more intense than fake boobs, bad lingerie and cream pies. I don’t mean that all mainstream porn is bad, but I think sometimes it’s good to get some perspective… Ethical porn actually depict not only real sex but also healthy fantasies on the basis that everybody is free to have pleasure.

The whole point of ethical/feminist porn is that it can help people enjoying even more their sexuality in real life. We are sadly all influenced by mainstream porn and sometimes expectations don’t match reality when we’re having sex with someone real. So, my advice is to not worry about not being “good enough” and just have fun!

Let’s begin.

1. Expectation: Kissing is like a pool sport

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Reality: kissing can be the hottest turn on ever

porn vs real sex kissing

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2. Expectation: Foreplay is basically “show me yours and I’ll show you mine” kind of thing

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Reality: it can be short or long, but it always warms every inch of your skin

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3. Expectation: Guys have to have huge dicks, otherwise it’s no fun

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Reality: Yes, it’s true: size does not matter!

Ok, maybe it’s nice when it’s not too small, but still, way too many guys are self-conscious about the size of their penis when, with a little more self-confidence, they could make girls scream with pleasure.

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4. Expectation: Same for boobs, the bigger, the better… or not?

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Reality: Any kind of boob is awesome.

Some guys like big boobs, others like small ones. It’s just a matter of personal taste! Girls with small boobs are way sexier than fake/plastic tits girls.

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5. Expectation: Fellatio is something a girl HAS to do to a guy

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Reality: Giving head can be sooo arousing for a woman, but only when she feels like it!

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6. Expectation: Actually cunnilingus are not so badly treated in porn, and this .gif looks pretty fun!

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Reality: Getting your pussy eaten is just the best.

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7. Expectation: Trying new positions looks so easy!

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Reality: Well, it’s not always as easy as it seems. But you know what they say… Practice, practice, practice!

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8. Expectation: Lesbians are dying to fuck men and women are always so eager to have sex with each other

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Reality: Lesbians have hot real sex with, you know, women!

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9. Expectation: Because every girl likes to have acrobatic masturbating sessions

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Reality: The couch is usually much more comfortable.

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10. Expectation: the male orgasm protocole is to take it out and come all over your partner’s ass.

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Reality: guys don’t have to “keep their cool” and they usually make funny faces. And it’s much funnier that way!

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11. Expectation: women are supposed to squirt and scream and all kinds of stuff when reaching climax, if it’s real of course.

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Reality: Orgasm can manifest in many different faces and feelings.

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